Dating and Relationships

How To Make A Guy Fall In Love With You: Win Over His Heart

Set in Our Ways at an Older Age

I think the older we get the more set in our ways we are. So sometimes when I meet someone who is in their late 40′s and find out the longest relationship they have been is a year, it tends to be a red flag. You have to make compromises in a relationship. Where you like to go to eat, what TV...

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Just a Rhode Island Girl and Her Dogs

I am so pleased to feature a guest blogger today. Ms.FloridaTransplant from Rhode Island has been gracious enough to share with us her feelings about divorce and starting life anew. I am sure many of us can relate to the rollercoaster of feelings and emotions she explored and continues to...

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How to Build Confidence and Attract Men on Doublelist

Learning how to build confidence is like learning to ride a bike, it just takes some practice. When I hear someone say, I'm just not pretty enough to date him I know that it is just a lack of confidence holding them back. We make excuses for why we don't have dates on Friday nights. If we...

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New Ends, New Beginnings At Doublelist

It’s been a while since I’ve posted and not for lack of experiences to share. This time of year is always so crazy at work and I haven’t been able to take any time out to clear my head and dish… so here goes! Things with Ex aren’t so great and I have had to put him on the doublelist list. It...

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Playing Hard To Get: The Miane Backpage Rules

You have to show interest - ladies if you haven’t figured this out yet, men are NOT mind readers! Actually they are far from it and they are not blessed with the same intuition and emotional sensitivity as us ladies. Sometimes even if you are not playing hard to get you have to spell it out....

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Mortality of Craiglist

Nothing lasts forever. Some things may fade with time, or over conflict. But…Death is the final goodbye. The final answer. The final say-so. The winner of any argument or test. Holding a hand and feeling the grip subside…the warmth slowly leaving the skin. The breathing becomes shallow and...

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Unintended Dating Side Effect For Single Men

Recently I was thinking how much I missed this group of Yukon men I used to hang out with all the time. We would go to wine tastings, events, dinners, parties and just generally have a great time. I met them all at a time when I really needed some Italian male firends and I’ve been grateful...

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Сrazy Heart

There’s a reason why I don’t do relationships. At the mere prospect of losing even a modicum of my highly valued independence I start to break out into hives. Deciding to push through and carry on to the place I’ve so rarely cared to venture, to the place where feelings become involved and I...

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Single men are, finally, where the heart is

Last night, in keeping with one of my resolutions for the year, instead of watching TV, cleaning (!) or surfing the Swedish men ads, I pulled out a book and decided to spend a couple of hours reading. I’d forgotten how much I really loved it, and have a sneaky feeling I’m going to hit my “book...

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New Year, New Goals, and a Online Dating Adventure

It’s a new year, and with a new year comes celebrations , a new look for the blog (what do you guys think?), and of course, resolutions. 2019 was a big one for me, and after making (and, for once, keeping) the toughest resolutions yet, I want to make 2020 even better. Looking back at the last...

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